I generally don't thank him enough, definitely not online!
There are many, many reasons for this; and even more excuses. Basically we shouldn't over praise people, nor make others hurt by what they don't have. However, this is a gratitude type of post and not meant as either. In 9 months of being with him, he has cooked either side by side with me or for me a few times. I know not to brag....
However, I just must say how proud I am of him. He is very patient with me even when I get out of pocket, or just say crazy things from my "opinion". He works very hard, even when they don't give him enough hours at work, to ensure that we have groceries and the basics. He even makes sure the internet bill is paid. Now, lets not be trifiling, the internet is NOT a necessity *gasp!* say what?!? Yeah, I know, who would have know? Crazy huh? ;)
He is sweet, appreciative, and compliments me on what I do, even if I don't do much of anything sometimes.
However these are the little simple things that add up my appreciation for him. Religiously? Well I definitely "married UP" in THAT department AlhamduliAllah!! =)
He is definitely a practicing brother inside, outside, working, at home, online, and with family and friends. Always the same person, no fronting MashaAllah. He runs homeschooling tips, and ideas by me and encourages me when I'm down.
Reminds me of
The Prophet* said:
"For Muslim men and women - for believing men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for men and women who give in charity, for men and women who fast (and deny themselves), for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who engage much in God's praise - for them has God prepared forgiveness and great reward."
There are many, many reasons for this; and even more excuses. Basically we shouldn't over praise people, nor make others hurt by what they don't have. However, this is a gratitude type of post and not meant as either. In 9 months of being with him, he has cooked either side by side with me or for me a few times. I know not to brag....
However, I just must say how proud I am of him. He is very patient with me even when I get out of pocket, or just say crazy things from my "opinion". He works very hard, even when they don't give him enough hours at work, to ensure that we have groceries and the basics. He even makes sure the internet bill is paid. Now, lets not be trifiling, the internet is NOT a necessity *gasp!* say what?!? Yeah, I know, who would have know? Crazy huh? ;)
He is sweet, appreciative, and compliments me on what I do, even if I don't do much of anything sometimes.
However these are the little simple things that add up my appreciation for him. Religiously? Well I definitely "married UP" in THAT department AlhamduliAllah!! =)
He is definitely a practicing brother inside, outside, working, at home, online, and with family and friends. Always the same person, no fronting MashaAllah. He runs homeschooling tips, and ideas by me and encourages me when I'm down.
Reminds me of
The Prophet* said:
-Quran 31:20
Qur'an 30:21"O Mankind, be conscious of your duty to your Lord Who created you from a single soul, and from it created its mate (of the same kind) and from them twain has spread a multitude of men and women.""For Muslim men and women - for believing men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for men and women who give in charity, for men and women who fast (and deny themselves), for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who engage much in God's praise - for them has God prepared forgiveness and great reward."
They are your garments and Ye are their garments
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The most perfect believers are the best in conduct and the best of you are those who are best to their wives.
"...then strive together (as in a race) towards all that is good."
Bismillaah
ReplyDeleteAs Salaamu Alaikum
Awwwwwwwwwwwww Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum! *thumbs up* Hey i didn't know you had a blog!!! You need to keep a sister updated :) love the post. Look forward to reading more Inshaa'Allaah
yeah MashaAllah I had a few I deleted the older one because a lot of it was "MY" point of view and opinion of Islam form 2 yrs ago and up and I didn't wanna have to answer for misleading anyone. Plus it was older, full of typos and I couldn't figure out all the settings.
ReplyDeleteI will try to keep you updated ;)
I have a Multiply site as well but it's basically a colorful version of facebook with this random blogging and group options.
It's good for like making groups for homeschooling and such in case you want to look into it.
Bismillaah
ReplyDeleteI love the page! Shukran for putting a link to my site on your page :)
I heard of Multiply but never checked into it. Maybe I will investigate Inshaa'Allaah. I just added you to my blog list. Baraka'Allaahu'Feekum- it is good to see you striving to be your best- May Allaah reward you for removing those blogs if they weren't correct! *is proud of you*
oh Anytime I started linking to a couple of the blogs with ideas, crafts, or sisters I love =)
ReplyDeleteThanks for adding me to your blog list MashaAllah now I feel speacial!